Edith Cox wrote:I don't know if he beat his wife and neither do you and that's a simple fact.
How could we know? It's one of those "he said, she said" situations in which he's known to be a monster who made his wife miserable through years of verbal and emotional abuse, and she has no reason to lie about the abuse also being physical. Flip a coin, we just have no idea who could be telling the truth.
but there is a wide gap between saying bad things and physical abuse.
No, there really isn't. But if you're the kind of scumbag who thinks verbal and emotional abuse can be described as "saying bad things" or being a "mean boyfriend" it would be pointless to explain further.